Stroke can affect the ability to control emotions. Emotional reactions can be exaggerated, unpredictable and sometimes inappropriate to the situation. Unfortunately, it is loved ones and carers who are often on the receiving end of emotional behaviour. There are techniques you can use to cope with challenging behaviour: 

  • Listen to the person and discuss the issue once tempers have calmed
  • Explain firmly but politely that the behaviour is not acceptable.

However, just because someone has had a stroke does not give them a right to bully or abuse you. If you are experiencing any type of abuse (physical or emotional), please speak with the professionals working with the person you care for. You can also speak to your local Adult Social Care team to get support and advice.